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change the pear vol. 30

welcome to a whole new newsletter! (elete: the pear has literally been changed...) thanks for being patient with me while i battled web development and email services and eventually managed to code and host this new site. there might be some teething issues (let me know if you spot any!) but it's been a while since i wrote a newsletter and i really wanted to get one out as soon as i could. it's winter here and i've been struggling to keep my head above water. i'm hoping that writing this keeps me tethered; reminds me that joy is never far away. let's get into it. [more]

change the pear vol. 29

hello! it feels strange to be going into autumn in april, but such is my cross to bear. march was a strange month: after the joy of claire’s visit, i felt muted emotionally and battered physically. i’m trying to be patient with myself and hope that april brings a more even keel. [more]

change the pear vol. 28

hello! it’s time to close out the year of the dragon and enter the year of the snake, a year of outgrowing your past self, of discarding what doesn’t feel right, of wisdom and transformation and renewal. let’s go for it. [more]

change the pear vol. 27

hello, it’s december and i’ve been visited by what feels like a succession of biblical plagues (insects, blood, storms). as i type this i just had to dispose of a highly venomous spider that was inside our back door. crawling to the end of the year on my hands and knees, basically. wishing you all light and ease and warmth as 2024 closes out. [more]

change the pear vol. 26

hello and welcome to november! i’m entering into my fourth month of living in australia (yikes). it doesn’t get any easier being further from friends and community back home, and i still don’t know what shape my life is taking here, but i’m taking it one day at a time. stay warm out there. i miss you. [more]

change the pear vol. 25

hello! welcome to october, a time of year where i usually become extra deranged due to the onset of seasonal depression. down in australia spring is arriving which means i am actually feeling pretty hopeful, optimistic, believing in joy again, etc—but not to worry, still deranged as ever. [more]

change the pear vol. 24

hello! usually i love the feeling that comes with september but my internal clock has been thrown out by this move and the change of hemisphere and the brutal tossing of my fragile body back into winter and consequently i have no idea what time of year it is. spring is coming i guess? rumour has it? but for those of you back in the northern hemisphere, i hope the nights aren’t drawing in too quickly. [more]

change the pear vol. 23

hi, hello. a few people asked me whether i was planning to continue this substack while i’m in australia and the answer is you can’t get rid of me that easily! life is very overwhelming and my brain is in a constant state of adapting and adjusting to all the confusing things that are happening, but i’m trying to carve out time amidst all of that for my favourite activities: obsessing over things and sharing my thoughts. [more]

change the pear vol. 22

hello! sorry for going awol. my thesis had its foot on my neck for the last few months, but it’s submitted now!!! you don’t understand how over it had to be before we could be this back, etc. it’s time to have thoughts again! nobody can stop me! i hope you’re all taking care of yourselves out there and getting sunlight on your faces. [more]

change the pear vol. 21

hello. january felt particularly long and brutal this year, so absolutely good riddance to that, although the grey dreariness of february isn’t much comfort. as we head into the end of the lunar year, i’m feeling sad to let the year of the rabbit go. i wrote last year: it’s a year of escaping demons, of running fast and free, of being swift and full of tricks, of becoming ungovernable, and i think the year reflected that in many different ways. but it’s time to look ahead to the year of the dragon: a year of burning bridges, of flying on the winds of morning, of myth and magic, of building a big hoard and keeping it safe. [more]

change the pear vol. 20

hello loves. here we are at the end of the year. it feels impossible to write any kind of summary of [gestures broadly] whatever the fuck that was, so instead i want to take this moment to say: thank you for reading this newsletter, for keeping me company through 2023. i wish you love, light, and so many moments of joy in the year to come.Ā and as always: free palestine. [more]

change the pear vol. 19

hello. scraping in at the tail end of november with a newsletter. i haven’t really been in the mood for writing, because there are more important things going on than what i’ve been implanting into my brain, but i drafted this last week when i was in bed sick and i wanted to share it. take care of yourselves out there, agitate educate organise, end the occupation, fuck western imperialism, free palestine now and forever. [more]

change the pear vol. 18

hello! it’s october again, which means i’m about to get even more reflective, deranged and earnest than usual as we head deeper into autumn and winter. sorry. it’s truly out of my control. [more]

change the pear vol. 17

hello! it’s been over a year since i started this substack, which feels absolutely wild. thanks for sticking around all this time. here’s what i’ve been thinking about so far in september—a month that always feels new to me, somehow. [more]

change the pear vol. 16

hello! can you believe august is almost over? i once saw someone describe august as ā€œthe sunday of monthsā€ and that’s how i’ve felt these past weeks. somewhat adrift, a slight sense of dread at what’s on the horizon, panic that i’m not making the most of the light warm days. the reminder that everything is temporary, and the seasons always change. sometimes that’s comforting, sometimes it’s not. but it happens all the same. [more]

change the pear vol. 15

hello! i’ve given up any semblance of a regular schedule for this newsletter. clearly i have very little control over when i have thoughts. [more]

change the pear vol. 14

hello! it’s taken me a while to write this one, and parts of it were written weeks apart. i hope it doesn’t read too chaotically, but then again, chaos is part of the M.O. of this newsletter so let’s just roll with it. [more]

change the pear vol. 13

hello and welcome to another month in crazy town (my mind). it’s been hard going, but i’m trying, and i’m still here. i hope the longer spring days are bringing more joy to you—and if not joy, then at least some kind of peace. thinking of you all. [more]

change the pear vol. 12

hello. long time no see. to be honest, i have been (and am) very depressed. for a while that manifested as being too overwhelmed and stressed to have coherent thoughts on anything. and then a switch flipped and suddenly my head was entirely devoid of any thoughts whatsoever, which was overwhelming in a different way. i’ve been taking life at a slower pace these days, and slowly thoughts are coming back. i wanted to share some of them here. [more]

change the pear vol. 11

hello! it feels simultaneously like february is slipping through my fingers and also like we are never going to make it to spring. but the other day i stopped on the steps of the tate in the late afternoon and i thought, hey, it’s still light out. a small gratitude but gratitude all the same. [more]

change the pear vol. 9

hello! welcome to the final newsletter of the year! i am scheduling this to send on thursday as usual because i’m unsure of my wifi situation this week, so i hope it gets to you all okay. i’ve felt more reflective than usual as the year draws to a close. i looked back at my resolutions for 2022 and i did very few of them, but i think i’ve grown in unexpected ways this year. it has been extraordinarily hard and miserable at times, but i am proud of myself for not giving up, for refusing to lie down in the hole, for trying my best, for being brave. i’m grateful to everybody who’s held me through the year, and, okay, yeah, i’ll say it: i’m tentatively hopeful about the next one. [more]

change the pear vol. 8

hello. can you believe the days are still getting shorter? i don’t know why the brutality of the winter dark always surprises me like this—surely i should remember that 4pm in december feels like the middle of the night, when it happens every year. anyway, i hope you’re all surviving and managing to find joy and light where you can. everything passes, even december. [more]

change the pear vol. 7

hello and welcome to volume 7. november currently has its foot on my neck so i’ve been struggling to have any thoughts at all that aren’t oh god can somebody please remove the pins they’re stabbing into my wax doll, but here we are anyway! [more]

change the pear vol. 6

hello! i’m back. someone (elete or hayley maybe?) once said that the year doesn’t start until lunar new year has passed, so here’s the first newsletter of the real new year. happy year of the rabbit! it’s a year of escaping demons, of running fast and free, of being swift and full of tricks, of becoming ungovernable. let’s get it. [more]

change the pear vol. 6

hello! i wrote most of this dispatch in a state of delirious exhaustion last weekend, so apologies for how rambling and incoherent it is. [more]

change the pear vol. 5

hello, welcome to volume 5. it truly brings me indescribable joy that people read this and share their own reflections on it! thanks for sticking with me. [more]

change the pear vol. 4

hello, welcome to volume 4! we’re well into october which means i’m entering peak derangement season. buckle up!! [more]

change the pear vol. 3

hello! volume 3 turned out way more earnest than the other two. sorry about that. blame it on the seasons changing and the fact that i’ve been listening to angel of realtime by gang of youths for 3 days straight. [more]

change the pear vol. 2

hello and welcome back to the latest edition of things i am rotating inside my mind like the world’s most deranged microwave. [more]

change the pear vol. 1

hi! welcome to the first edition of whatever this substack is. i thrive off of rigidly-planned structure, so i’m going to organise it into four sections: listening / watching / reading / other. these might stay the same every time or maybe they’ll shift, who knows. [more]